Cannot recover...

4 things that you cannot recover....

The Stone ..........

.......after the throw!

The word............
.......after it's said!
The occassion.....
.......after the loss!
The time........
.......after it's gone.

Unconditional pure Love

I am a mother of 4 children (3 four legged and 1 two legged) their names are puppy, Julie(both 2 and a 1/2 yrs old), Adhav(17mths old) and Bella(13mths old). Puppy and Julie are doggies and Bella is a cat… And for the record I DON’T like calling my girls as dogs and cats, MUST use their names...

Our children are the most precious God given gift, I never knew it until I had my own princesses and prince… It is so funny to see Adhav playing with puppy and Julie… Bella won’t take a chance with Achu (nickname of Adhav) she will maintain a safer distance from him… whereas Puppy and Julie love to play with him especially Julie she just lies down for him to rub her tummy, kiss her, hug her and so on… Achu behaves well with them and they care for each other… and share things like doggy house & trampoline in the backyard and Achu tends to sit in their bed along with them inside the house… I have told him number of times not to climb on to puppy and Julie’s bed when they are in it, because he might unknowingly hurt them, I just can’t tolerate my children undergoing pain… but this reverse psychology plays a big role in kids especially under the age of 5…

So one day as usual he was playing with them and finally Puppy & Julie went to bed and Achu was watching the advertisement(His Favorite). When the advertisement got over he climbed over Puppy - Julie’s bed … right away Puppy jumped out of the bed and Julie as usual laid their for him to rub her tummy … unfortunately, Achu stamped on one of her leg and she cried out aloud, it was unintentional. I was so furious with Achu and I scolded him and gave a small smack on his bum and I was attending to Julie giving her a massage and comforting her… Meanwhile Puppy ran and came to see Julie and Achu was still puzzled and couldn’t understand why Julie cried and why I am giving her a massage and scolding him… Next what happened was really amazing and made me to realize the love they have for each other… Puppy couldn’t tolerate to see me scolding Achu, do u know what she did???? Have a guess….

She ran to and fro between him and me and she jumped and smooched him and she looked at me with that pitiful eyes, I felt like she was saying “Mum plz don’t scold Achu he didn’t do it on purpose” and the next thing that happened just took me away, guess what??? Julie ran to him in a very playful mood and smooched him as well it was like telling him that “don’t worry Achu I am feeling better I know that you didn’t mean to hurt me” and she ran and came to me and jumped at me and gave me a smooch and sat near me for a massage… and finally Achu told her "soiiyee" (it is Sorry in his language) and gave her a hug. I was speechless… It just shows how much they love and care for each other… I was wondering what was going in their tiny minds?? How did they know that they have to comfort each other and be there for each other??? Really fantastic… and is lovely to see them care for each other… I am so proud of my children and I thank God everyday for giving me this treasure… Like this many many more incidents has happened…

I love animals… and I am really really crazy about them, I can live without humans in my life but I can’t live without a pet… I am very much comfortable with animals and babies… The love that pets and babies have towards us is unconditional and pure… And I always wonder what have I done to receive this unconditional and pure love???

Experiences - best teachers

"Life" a wonderful word of prosperity, a mysterious teacher who teaches us good and bad thro’ the experiences we encounter…

A teacher with no pay who works day and night and always there for us… Just keeps our past & present and helps us to mould the future… which we await with hopes and dreams…

Some experiences are touch and painful but others are cherishing and enjoyable as long as we learn our lesson and try not to commit the same mistake again we are playing the life game safely …

As long as we learn to put our past behind and take life as it comes and deal with the emotions - which is the better half of our life, we then will have the magic wand of happiness.

Its always a puzzle as our past is a mixture of happiness and sadness, quite often we seem to forget about the happy past and sit and whine about the worst dreadful past which only brings sadness and bad memories but still we find hard to let go of it…

“When one door closes another door opens but we still sit and cry for the closed door instead of enjoying the opened door”.

The best way to enjoy life is to put behind our past and move on – which is easier said than done, life is short try to enjoy it to the fullest.